Underage Sex & Pregnancy

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I really do not have a very strong opinionated view of this but I thought I would create a topic and see what others think.

With the recent news of Jamie Lynn Spears becoming pregnant, I just wondered what you thought of her decision to keep the baby and the news (not sure if its 100% true) that her longterm boyfriend Casey Aldridge is not with her anymore.

She now her to deal with his mistake as she has realised but it will be a long road. Im sure alot of people will give her support but its surely a step that werent meant to happen.

Views?

[MrTouz]

I am sending the ball right back to you Sazzad

I would more think for the baby's side. I mean ok... my personal situation :

- At school not knowing what i am doing.
- No real job (where i can handle a family)
- Still live at my parents
- My parents can't afford an other kid (yes they can but in a certain way everybody can)
- No girl that i love, no girl that i want to marry.

If during sex somehow i get a woman pregnant... i mean it can always happen... i do not have a girlfriend where i went to a point where we get tested together so we know both of us can have safe sex without condom, so i still put one on... but we know condoms have there failures... but lets just assume it did happen and after a while we get that she gets pregnant now :

This is how I personally see it :

I don't like the woman to a point i want a kid with her
I don't have the money to afford a kid
Telling my parents they got to help me out will be a total shame on me for doing such a stupid act
I don't have my own place
I don't have a good job
I am not done with school

Where is this baby going to be ?

- Of course if she has it... not my choice but now its here there is no claiming its not mine... my mistake i deal with it (right ?)
- The kid will live between her / me

I will personally will not be able to keep it to me and definitely not the girl i fucked. I mean... last thing i remember - the girls i am having sex with are between 18 and 24 they are all in school (if my memory is not being a bitch tonight) and none of them will be able to afford, care, or take care of a kid.

So it will either... end up to our parents having a kid that lives with my parents is just horrible knowing that he or she will be living in 2 different houses with 2 different families, not knowing who is who and will be totally lost when one of us finally has a life and wants the kid OR not.

Or end up in DAS or DASS i never knew how it was written... basically the place you put the kid if you can't afford or are not able to take care of a kid.

How can that be good for a kid ? and for my self ? Or the girl i fucked ? Or my family ? Or her's

5 parties... 5 of them being screwed over one condom failure.

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Now above is my own opinion ... of course but that's my case... i know i can not afford to have one... no time no money and no one. Now OK !!!! if its the Spears... than fuck yea... they are rich... they definitely don't give a fuck how they raise a kid (look at Britney).

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I personally want 5 kids. At least. Sometimes i say 2 or 3 but nah... when i think about it :

Grand parents from my fathers side, they had around 8 kids (i don't know all of them... some in France, Canada, US, Lebanon, Armenia)
Grand parents from my mothers side, they had 12 kids.
My parents had 4.

I carry the Krikorian last name, in my fathers side out of around 30 grand children we are only 2 to be males both named Garo after our grand father and are only 2 that can carry the name of Krikorian to our kids.

I want 5 kids, 5 boys. Only if i can afford it. If i can afford 10. I want 10.
If i can't afford 1 i will have none.

(the word afford above is used as of : time, money, stress level, and any other way you can think of)