Ok, i've looked over the support & help forums, and seen the many php mail topics....now, I wish to have something addressed.

Can't you guys log all outgoing emails, and, if someone complains about being spammed, just delete the person's account that the mail came from? I mean, some of us really need the mail function, such as myself.....

If you can't provide it, do you know of a host that can?

It's not as easy as that, once you get flagged as a server sending spam you get blacklisted, which in-turn prevents email delivery to mail servers using these blacklists.